Give Birth VS Abortion

As a human being I am, like everyone else, we are always in the jeopardise situation with lots of choices and reason to make.

Guess what??
Its a scary abortion figure, in Asia, Vietnam top the statistic of 1 out of 3 babies aborted while in Singapore, there is 12,000 foetuses yearly aborted and in Malaysia is 1 out of 5 babies aborted.

Looking at this figure, are we as a adult being responsible as we always claim to be and hope our children to be responsible too?

From myself as individual till I m the mother with 3 childrens, I hope I be able to encourage more giving birth womens than abortion.

Why?
I seen before how the abortion done as I work in a clinic before.
The painful process during and after the abortion.
Mentally turmoil share by close ones.
The face of irresponsible or saddness of parent.
& etc...

I hope with sharing of few things on consideration that "We - either You as a Man or Women, Husband or Wife, Boyfriend or Girlfriend, Father or Mother "
THINK!! THINK!!CONSIDER!! CONSIDER!!DEEPLY...
Before any action taken.

Things to Consider	Give Birth	Abortion
Family Support	Especially from your closest loved ones : Family-Be it your husband, boyfriend, lover, friends, parents & etc.. Whole pregnancy process last for 10months & post pregnancy of 3months.	Especially from your closest loved ones: Your Own Parent or Husband! Then, its your boyfriend, lover, friends & etc.. Pre & Post before deciding abortion which this decision is remembered till the last day of your life. *This exceptional for rape cases & baby defect..
Financial	Why you WANT this baby? Personally, I believe children will follow their parent life whether you are poor or rich. Importantly, its the value that a parent give to childrens. Myself not a well to do family yet the supportive from family had bring courage for me to face most all the problem. *WELL DONE!! For courage adult to give birth instead abortion. Be strong to face difficulty and ask for help from support group. More..	Why you ABORT this Baby? Main reason is both adult not ready for responsible. WHO TO BLAME? Baby is Innocent! *This exceptional for rape cases & baby defect..
Emotion	Pregnancy blues with drastic phyical body change which may cause low self esteem, depression and long term health problem. *Well DONE! From abortion to give birth, be Strong to face difficulty and ask for help. There is always support group for you..more	Guilt and regrets that may haunt till the end of life as a life being kill in your hand. If decision had made, forgive and acceptance the baby is not meant to be for you. Be RESPONSIBLE to your act and relationship in future.
Health	Immune system will be booster better. As during confinement, you will be nourish. Of course, downside is IF you didnt take care well which end up you might having diabetes, high blood pressure, back pain & etc. However, this can be treat with diets or medication if its severe.	Divide into short term and long term side effect. One of the common long term side effect is possibility of infertility due to infection in the fallopian tubes and ovaries caused by the Chlamydia organism. More..
Love	Enhance relationship as both of you been through sweet and hardship of pregnancy till the baby is arriving. In same time, its not a 100% prove of good loving relationship without both side putting the best effort in maintaining the relationship with patient, understanding and togetherness.	Lack of trust in human relationship. Guilt and deppress of killing a baby. Look at bright side, there is always a better one waiting for you and you are strong enough to face the mistake that had done and redeem it in future.
Relationship	Up to 90% of survey mention once the child is born, it enhance relationship between family member into better level. Why? I guess...this is the Power and Unique of Human relationship and feeling!	Same goes with this portion:- (i) Decision of ABORT might just an excuse for either the male or female to get away from responsibility which they have high chance in regret this in future. Its definately a great trial to your present relationship to go for further level with greater of hope to live for better.
Method	Natural Giving Birth or C-section	Either by consumption of medication or a small operation which subject to the age of pregnancy. Eg: If your pregnancy is already more than 13 weeks, then the procedure is more complicated and requires more than one visit to the doctor. More..

My personal view that since you have the courage to abort, WHY NOT just put all this courage to let your baby to meet you and see this world?
This is really a great feeling and I salute you for this courage!!
However, I must say, unless there is special or unique case which I will fully support on abortion. This must be supported by your own self and loved ones decision making and understanding of side effect of the abortion.

CHOICES is in your Hand!